Getting Skinny for Ballet

I will be skinny for ballet class.

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NEED ADVICE ASAP PLEASE HELP

There is this guy who I barely know but we have been friendly for the last 3 years attending the same school. He is nice and we talk maybe once or twice a semester. Now, right before break he messages me on facebook and tells me out of the blue he has a crush on me. 

Now I was shocked but I had to give him credit for being honest. He is a nice guy not some crazy dumb Ill tell you I like you so I can fuck you kind of guy. So what’s the problem? I am in no way attracted to him. 

He tells me he wants to take me on a date and hang out with me and I can;t say no to people so I kind of play along (terrible I know) but then I tell him the truth. And then we didn’t talk for a few days. Then New years he texts me and we start casually talking nothing pushy about hanging out or going on a date. Then he starts bring it up again and telling me things like how beautiful I am and how he thinks it is so great how dedicated and passionate I am about dance. 

Basically this guy is great minus the fact I would never want to kiss him. So I am attracted to the guy I am talking to but not him in person. 

The other problem is that I am severely lonely and I want so badly to find someone who likes me and wants to be with me and kisses me and tells me good morning and good night. UGH!!!!! SO I sort of want to say sure lets hang out but then I dont want to lead him to believe I want more with him then I do. But then again some people say I am being too harsh and that I should give him a chance. 

Please give me your advice! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!!!?

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NEED ADVICE ASAP PLEASE HELP

There is this guy who I barely know but we have been friendly for the last 3 years attending the same school. He is nice and we talk maybe once or twice a semester. Now, right before break he messages me on facebook and tells me out of the blue he has a crush on me. 

Now I was shocked but I had to give him credit for being honest. He is a nice guy not some crazy dumb Ill tell you I like you so I can fuck you kind of guy. So what’s the problem? I am in no way attracted to him. 

He tells me he wants to take me on a date and hang out with me and I can;t say no to people so I kind of play along (terrible I know) but then I tell him the truth. And then we didn’t talk for a few days. Then New years he texts me and we start casually talking nothing pushy about hanging out or going on a date. Then he starts bring it up again and telling me things like how beautiful I am and how he thinks it is so great how dedicated and passionate I am about dance. 

Basically this guy is great minus the fact I would never want to kiss him. So I am attracted to the guy I am talking to but not him in person. 

The other problem is that I am severely lonely and I want so badly to find someone who likes me and wants to be with me and kisses me and tells me good morning and good night. UGH!!!!! SO I sort of want to say sure lets hang out but then I dont want to lead him to believe I want more with him then I do. But then again some people say I am being too harsh and that I should give him a chance. 

Please give me your advice! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!!!

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HELP! Song Ideas!

Hey followers so I know a lot of you are dancers and even if you aren’t feel free to chime in. I am looking for music to choreograph to for my class. I am think something instrumental or with lyrics that has a strong musical background. For style I am thinking lyrical/ contemporary. I am super stuck so I’d really appreciate any help.

So far my top 3 possibilities have been How it Ends by Devotchka, Mad World by Gary Jules, and Dare to Believe by Boyce Avenue but I am just not feeling inspired by them!

Do you have any ideas?

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Anonymous asked: i feel the same way..i can just cry at night all the time.. i hate wearing tank tops..because i know my stomach does not look good. im 5' 5" and weigh 128 pounds..my goal is to get to 105...can you help me?? :(

No I won’t help you…you’re healthy…please stay that way. Please. 

I don’t know what it is tonight but I have gotten a lot of similar messages recently. And I want to make something clear. I DO NOT support unhealthy habits (even my own). I am sharing my experiences in trying to find a balance between accepting myself and becoming the best self I can be. At times I admit I have unhealthy thoughts but my goals are to remain healthy and get to a healthier weight for my body. It may seem from my posts that what I want is unhealthy but for me it isn’t I use my posts as motivation for me personally so I apologize sincerely if that is making others feel badly about themselves because I would never wish the thoughts of hatred I have about myself onto someone else EVER.

My goal is to get to a place where I can love myself with or without weight loss. I think some weight loss will help me get there but I am doing this slowly and by introducing healthy habits in to my daily routine.

To everyone reading this please be healthy, please try to love yourself, and please if you ever need I am here to talk.

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NEED ADVICE

I really need advice about to meet guys. The kind of guys who are nice and sweet and will treat me right. I don’t want a crazy partier of a boyfriend. 

I just don’t know how to. I am 20 and going to school where all the guys just want to get drunk and hook up with the sluttiest girls they can. 

Does anyone have any advice or suggestions? I am really not good at this. I am really tired of being single and feeling lonely all the time. Can anyone help me?

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