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NEED ADVICE ASAP PLEASE HELP

There is this guy who I barely know but we have been friendly for the last 3 years attending the same school. He is nice and we talk maybe once or twice a semester. Now, right before break he messages me on facebook and tells me out of the blue he has a crush on me. 

Now I was shocked but I had to give him credit for being honest. He is a nice guy not some crazy dumb Ill tell you I like you so I can fuck you kind of guy. So what’s the problem? I am in no way attracted to him. 

He tells me he wants to take me on a date and hang out with me and I can;t say no to people so I kind of play along (terrible I know) but then I tell him the truth. And then we didn’t talk for a few days. Then New years he texts me and we start casually talking nothing pushy about hanging out or going on a date. Then he starts bring it up again and telling me things like how beautiful I am and how he thinks it is so great how dedicated and passionate I am about dance. 

Basically this guy is great minus the fact I would never want to kiss him. So I am attracted to the guy I am talking to but not him in person. 

The other problem is that I am severely lonely and I want so badly to find someone who likes me and wants to be with me and kisses me and tells me good morning and good night. UGH!!!!! SO I sort of want to say sure lets hang out but then I dont want to lead him to believe I want more with him then I do. But then again some people say I am being too harsh and that I should give him a chance. 

Please give me your advice! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!!!?

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NEED ADVICE ASAP PLEASE HELP

There is this guy who I barely know but we have been friendly for the last 3 years attending the same school. He is nice and we talk maybe once or twice a semester. Now, right before break he messages me on facebook and tells me out of the blue he has a crush on me. 

Now I was shocked but I had to give him credit for being honest. He is a nice guy not some crazy dumb Ill tell you I like you so I can fuck you kind of guy. So what’s the problem? I am in no way attracted to him. 

He tells me he wants to take me on a date and hang out with me and I can;t say no to people so I kind of play along (terrible I know) but then I tell him the truth. And then we didn’t talk for a few days. Then New years he texts me and we start casually talking nothing pushy about hanging out or going on a date. Then he starts bring it up again and telling me things like how beautiful I am and how he thinks it is so great how dedicated and passionate I am about dance. 

Basically this guy is great minus the fact I would never want to kiss him. So I am attracted to the guy I am talking to but not him in person. 

The other problem is that I am severely lonely and I want so badly to find someone who likes me and wants to be with me and kisses me and tells me good morning and good night. UGH!!!!! SO I sort of want to say sure lets hang out but then I dont want to lead him to believe I want more with him then I do. But then again some people say I am being too harsh and that I should give him a chance. 

Please give me your advice! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!!!

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Ex Story

Today I heard a story about my ex and what he is like now. We dated for almost two years when I was in high school and now we don’t talk at all not even out of courtesy when bad things happen. So I saw an old friend today and she had seen him a few days ago and told me he is super weird now but that he brought up how I text him occasionally. 

I have decided it is officially time to put him out of my life completely. No need to think about him, care about him, talk about him there is really no point to any of it.

Last time I texted him was 12/9. That will be the last time ever. And for the first time I am actually really excited about that. 

Moving forward and moving on into what I can imagine will be the greatest year of my life!

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Pisses me off

I normally consider myself an attractive person. I have my days and I put effort into looking presentable but somehow I have found myself single for basically 5.5 years. Wow seeing that number makes me feel pathetic. 

There are a few girls around who in the last few months have ended long term relationships and no sooner did they end did another one begin. And I realize that is probably not the best choice on their part but come on? How do they have guys lined up to be with them when I can’t even find one. 

I am so tired of the single life. And it really scares me that I will graduate in May and begin work life and never find anyone . I am like really terrified. 

I just want someone to love me and want me and need me and give me a hug at the end of a long day and hold my hand or let me lay my head on his shoulder. 

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Why o why?

I still miss him. It has been so long and I feel pathetic for it. I shouldn’t miss him, I shouldn’t even think about him. But I do ad hat sucks even worse is that I no one is thinking about me. I just really want to feel that feeling for someone again it has been so long. I have tried faking it but it just makes things worse and ends up hurting me even more. He doesn’t even speak to me not even when I text him to see if he is alive after awful events. 

I just want someone to love me, want me, need me and no one else. Someone to tell me I am beautiful and someone to hold me, and someone to talk to no matter what. 

I feel pathetic absolutely pathetic. I am dipping into a dark place again and I don’t want to. I just want to be happy but that doesn’t work . Apparently I am just to fat and ugly for anyone to like me. 

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How do you tell your best friend you are in love with them?

I have been friends with him since my freshman year of high school he is now a senior in college and I am a junior in college. I would not be where I am today without him. He knows everything. And I am pretty sure I love him. I want to talk to him all the time but I don’t get to talk to him too much we live really far apart but when I do I don’t want to conversation to end.

The thought of being away from him forever terrifies me but its a real possibility since he has a job after graduation lined up where he goes to school which is on the opposite side of the country. He also doesn’t come home very often and when he does I do my best to see him as much as possible.

We have always been just friends even though I am fairly sure he had a crush on me when I was a freshman but I never knew for sure.

I want to tell him that I don’t know what I would do without him and that I think I care about him more than just a friend but I would probably just ruin things. What do I do? Do I say anything? What do I say? What if he feels the same? We can’t really do anything about it I don’t even know the next time I will see him.   

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I am in love with my best friend…

But…

  • I could never tell him
  • I would be terrified of ruining our relationship
  • He goes to school thousands of miles away from me on the opposite end of the country
  • No one could ever be as good as he is for me

I miss him all the time and when I do get to talk to him I don’t want it to end. I have always had this small feeling but today it just really hit me. He is going on a trip for spring break and I just didn’t want our conversation to end. But I also worry about him and care about him so so so much. And I think if he knew he would admit to feeling the same but what we have now is so good I think we are both afraid of telling the other the while truth. What  to do?

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Also…

I have been feeling super alone lately. I dated someone for a short while last semester and the end result was me feeling ok being single but I am back to the feeling of want someone to love me and care about me. 

I am hoping that once I reach my goals and am able to better accept myself that I will find someone. In some way though I am terrified that this is just a justification so I can get through now but I will just ultimately be left alone. I am terrified of never finding someone who will love me. I see people who are happy together and my friends are starting to get engaged/ married and I want that. I want to feel that way about someone. 

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